
Smile makes us forever young
"
Frown and
you frown
alone," , "but smile and the
whole world smiles with you." The whole world? Not just any smile
will do, though. Here's how to develop a genuine, infectious smile
that can make a bad date turn good, seal a
business
deal, and help you
make friends wherever you go.
- Practice good hygiene. If you've got
bits of food stuck in your teeth, people may indeed say you have an
infectious smile, but they might be talking about actual infections. It
should go without saying, but regularly brushing your teeth and making sure
your breath is fresh are prerequisites to a
good smile. If your teeth are stained, visit
the dentist for a polishing or use a whitening
product, and take care of your lips to prevent chapping. When you smile people will
inevitably look at your mouth, so following these considerations
will help you make a better impression, and, more importantly, a
healthy mouth will make you feel more confident about smiling.
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A smile lights up your face
Get comfortable with smiling. Many people are a little
nervous about smiling. They don't think their smile looks good, or
they think that smiling makes them look unprofessional or
vulnerable. It's true that a smile does show a little
vulnerability, but that's part of what makes it so powerful. No
matter how professional, intelligent, or in control you think a serious
face (or worse, a frown) makes you appear, people almost always
respond better to a smile.
- Think happy
thoughts. The easiest way to a great smile is to be happy. You can be happy all the time, but not
everybody is; when you are not, you can think happy thoughts
instead. Think about something or someone that you care about, or
think about a joke
that you just find hilarious. Remarkably, when you're feeling down,
smiling can help cheer you up, even if you have to coax a smile out
at first.
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Smiles are contagious.
Smile with your eyes. When we think of smiling, we
think of the mouth, but the eyes may actually be more essential to
a warm, genuine smile. Smiling with your eyes is difficult to
describe--in general your cheekbones lift slightly and your
eyebrows
dip a little--but when you see it, you know it: it's that look of
your eyes "lighting up" or "twinkling." To get a feel for how to
make your eyes smile, get in front of a mirror and practice smiling, but
concentrate only on your eyes. You may find it helpful to cover the
lower part of your face with a piece of paper. Play around with it
a bit, and you'll find that you can make your mouth smile when your
eyes aren't smiling, and you can also smile only with your eyes.
When your eyes do smile, remember how it feels, which muscles are
working and how. With practice, you'll be able to smile with your
eyes at will.
- Develop your smile. Don't particularly care for your
smile? It's a common complaint, and while it's true that any smile
is better than a frown, it's also true that some smiles look better
than others. What's your best smile? One way to find out is to look
through pictures of yourself. Many people who consider themselves
unphotogenic are plagued by bad smiles in front of the camera, but
just about everybody has at least one picture in which they just
look great, with a perfectly natural, contagious smile. Find that
picture and focus on what your face is doing. Then practice in
front of a mirror until you get it just right. Keep practicing, and
pay attention to how that great smile feels, so that you'll be able
to replicate it without looking in a mirror. Soon it will become
second nature, and you'll likely find that you'll look more photogenic in your
next batch of pictures.
- If you want to improve your smile, look at pictures of
smiles that you believe are beautiful. Also, think good
thoughts and remember that you are beautiful (inside and out). Your
smile is bound to look better if you feel good about yourself!
- You don't need perfect teeth to have a perfect smile.
Not everybody has perfect teeth, and that's okay. Beautiful teeth
are nice, but a great smile doesn't depend on Abercrombie &
Fitch teeth. That said, if you feel uncomfortable about your teeth
you may be reluctant to smile, and that's no good. If that's the
case, either learn to appreciate your individuality or look into
cosmetic dentistry procedures.
- Begin your smile with your eyes. If you find that every time
you try to smile with your mouth, you look like you're faking it
or, worse, like you're in pain, you may find it useful to look in a
mirror and smile only with your eyes. Once your eyes are smiling,
they tend to pull your whole face (including your mouth) into a
natural, beautiful smile.
- You've probably heard of "contagious" or "infectious" smiles.
There's a reason for this. When you smile, it does tend to make
others around you smile. Even in the most stressful times, a
roomful of smiles can brighten everybody's mood. Either that or
make someone seriously pissed at you, just because you are smiling
when they are talking about someones funeral...
- Ever laugh hysterically about something you've just seen? Now,
think of that instance again will help fuel a full blown
smile.
- A lot of men feel uncomfortable about smiling at strangers,
especially at other males. If that is the case, then just offer a
casual "Hi", or "Hey man!", or "What's goin' on?". It works just as
well, and feels less awkward for a lot of guys.
- Try a light smile: dont show as much teeth as you would when
you would be laughing-its the best smile for flirting-light and
seductive.
- If you have a tooth that pokes out a bit at the side, as many
people sometimes do, try to get your lip to go above it so your lip
doesn't catch on the tooth when you smile.
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Warnings
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A fake smile can make you look phony or even dangerous.
A fake smile can make you look phony, nervous, or even dangerous,
so don't just try to put on a smile without first practicing or
putting yourself in a happy state of mind. Body language reflects
our innermost feelings, and it's often easier to change our
attitudes than to try to make our bodies communicate emotions we
don't really feel, like if you are very happy it will show
through your teeth. If you smile a huge smile when someone
looks at you, you will look like a freak. So keep a tiny smile and
not a big one.
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