Many young adults still live with their parents. Sometimes this is because they are unemployed, or haven't got a place of their own. Whatever the reasons, some parents don't get it. They want you to move out. How do you establish independance whilst living in the family home?

[edit] Steps

Talk to your parents calmly. Explain your reasons for staying at home, but emphasise that you aren't going to depend on them forever. Tell them that you will do everything you can to gain full independance - and stick to it!
If this doesn't work, then write everything down carefully and clearly. Leave it for them to find, then stick to what you've written. Make sure you all have a copy.
Get out there! Find a job, go for interviews, look at houses, do whatever you need to do to get out and establish full independance. Don't ever give up.
Be happy! Have a positive attitude and you'll have more chance at success.

[edit] Tips

Don't be scared. Just state your reasons and do what needs to be done.
Stick to your promises.

[edit] Warnings

Don't be rude to your family. No matter what, they are still your family and will always be there for you.
Don't shout at them, swear or anything. Be mature and calm. Let them do the shouting - don't rise to the bait.